Just a little moan

I have just started reading another blog about a woman who has had IVF, and she came out with some really good points that i just have to write about.

• Point 1: why is it when people hear you are going to have IVF they tell you to watch out, that you may end up with 6 or 8, come on the likely hood of having that many would be so low its ridiculous.
• Point 2: why do people always think that just because you cant have kids naturally your should decide to take on the worlds unwanted children, yes OK these children need homes and parents but that's not fair really is it, its like entering a competition and the main prise is a car but you don't have a licence so they give you a bus ticket, or you want an expensive pair of jeans but don't have the money for them so you have to deal with someones hand me down primark jeggin's. I'm sorry but just because i cant think about having a baby and i become pregnant doesn't mean i should be fobbed off with someone Else's offspring.
• Point 3: don't tell me to relax and it will work, don't tell me to 'stop trying and it will happen because it wont, before i was diagnosed i was always relaxed, most of the times after i was diagnosed i was relaxed, your body doesn't sit there and say' nope I'm not going to work today because your not relaxed'. just because it happens to some people when they stop trying doesn't make that the process for everyone.
• Point 3: quit telling me 'it must be gods will' or ' wait till you are married', again if i wait till I'm married my body isn't going to say 'yes that ring is on her finger all systems are go' unless it is some sort of ring from 'lord of the rings' that has magical powers its not going to work, and if it is gods will then turn to a cancer patient and tell them its gods will for them to have cancer so stop treatment and deal with it. I'm sure you would probably be named the evilest person alive if you said that to a cancer sufferer so why do you think it is OK to do it to an infertile lady.

Right rant over for now.